The worst part for me has been the shame I feel when getting medical care. I don't know a single full service worker who has gone to the ER after a rape, even though almost every worker I know has been sexually assaulted at least once. Once, I was assaulted by a client, and I didn't get medical attention or report it because I was worried about being arrested or not being believed.
Another time, I had to go to the ER because of a burst ovarian cyst. I knew what was happening and kept asking for an ultrasound to confirm it. The doctor at the ER noted that my chart labeled me as a "prostitute." I realized that the OB/GYN I had previously seen in the same hospital system must have recorded that, even though I had shared it in confidence to explain my medical history. The ER doctor repeatedly called me a prostitute in front of everyone in the room. None of the nurses wanted to work with me. No one believed me when I kept saying my cyst had burst and instead kept testing me for STIs. All the tests were negative, as I had only three sexual partners in the past year due to the nature of my sex work, but they didn't listen to that either. They injected me with antibiotics and refused to perform any of the tests I requested. Ultimately, I needed emergency surgery and lost one of my ovaries because they waited too long to address the issue.
And all of this happened to me, a white, cisgender, conventionally attractive, able-bodied, educated woman. I can't imagine what the experience would have been like if I had been a woman of color, an immigrant, houseless—the list goes on. Decriminalization is necessary. Stigma and criminalization cost me an ovary, and it could have cost me my life. -Anonymous Sex Worker in Chicago